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There are few more things which according to me are BAD HABITS and they have annoyed me for a long time and they still do but when I gave it a strong thought then it strike me that “How can all these things be incorrect when countless people do it”. Then I thought, why not I request reasons for these things from you.
Please reply your justification in comments wherever it relevant to you,
1. TENDENCY – Trash on Road.
QUESTION – Why do people complain about India being dirty when they themselves littre it by throwing trash wherever it is possible.
MY ANALYSIS – People are so selfish that they do not realize that India is also there home, you do not throw garbage in your living room do you ?? Why cant you take all the throwable trash to your house and dump it in your dustbin, why cant you look out for a dustbin or atleast throw it somewhere where it is probability for that trash to be collected in the morning.PLEASE DO NOT litter
Exception - I truly expect that governmanet must have dustbins atleast at intervals of 100 meters whithin all market places.
YOUR OUTLOOK – What do you feel ?? Let me know in the comments.
2. TENDENCY – Native lingo conversation
QUESTION – Why people use their mother tongue when someone who doesn’t understand the idiom is also involved in the conversation??
MY ANALYSIS – Bad etiquettes.
3. TENDENCY – Queue breaking
QUESTION – Why so sophisticated people (generally the IT mass) break line and want to be first, circumstances like line for lunch, bus or anything??
MY ANALYSIS – Is it lack of proper education!!
4. TENDENCY – South Indian food is awful.
QUESTION – Approximately 90% people who are not from South thinks the south Indian Food is pathetic.
MY ANALYSIS – 89% out of that 90% either have never tasted the food of south or they make assumptions based on texture of the south Indian food which is not as attractive as oily – calorific north Indian food. Rest 1% does not want to get accustomed to it. How would you feel if a South Indian tells you that Pav-Bhaji, Pani Puri, Samosa, kachori are the worst things he/she has ever eaten, yes it will make you annoyed, now put yourself in their shoe and think.
Please do let me know what do you think about any of these which will allow me to realize and transform my belief regarding few things.
Also please let me know if i have missed some habits which annoys you alot and are worth mentioning.
9 comments:
you have raised and done a good start. i think we youth lack a will power to step up and do thing differently. stand up for you country or do a little to improve it
Hey Ankit, nice thought man. btw am really impressed with the last bit on South Indian Food. U have become anative n tht is good. as for the littering stuff, i m very much part of the campaign to sensitize ppl doing my own bit n asking others to do the same. :)
Bad habits need to be stopped bro.....
if we ourself r not doing the thing rightfully then how can we complane to others.....
1: I totally agree with you ankit people need to be more sensitive & aware of the fact that they are the only ones responsible for making there country clean & beautifull so should stop littering around ....why blame others just look around you will find your own near & dear ones too need some advice & improvement.
2:Speaking native lang is just out of there habit i guess....we all need to object to it till they stop & change the bad habit:)
3:Queue breaking...is definately Lack of "MANNERS" and lack of following "RULES" & i guess some people get a wierd high by breaking rules :(
4:Most of the people think what they eat and where they belong to is the best est in the world & do not want to accept the fact that there are many many cuisines / places / people /clothing /languages much better than them ...i guess it is just lack of exposure..
One of the reason for littering can be illiteracy. It is really sad to know that when we talk about various issues and try to think ways of improvment, we still have people in our country who do not understand what does all this means. Akshaya
TENDENCY – Native lingo conversation
comment:- i disagree as bad etiquettes.
1) most of them they hardly bilingual or trilingual....its our limitations....
2)people can express better there own mother tounge...
As upto now hindi and english is not accepted, as main stream langusage ...hindi is just for name sake as a national language........if u find someone is doing despretaly then we request him/her to use a language such a that every one can understand in the group.....this is fact in india their is 220 ( recognise language) Approx 3000(unrecognisedlanguage)....only 10%(as i feel)is bi-lingual.....so don't judge on the basis of one side of coin...it may be their limitations.....
TENDENCY – South Indian food is awful.
my view
i am partialy disaree on your view...
1)You ask this quetion to a south indian who is staying in north india....i hope u will get your answer....
2) you ask this quetion to those indian who is staying abroad.....i
hope u will get your answer....
According to my views....
chage of anything is very hard to accept......simmilarly our taste.....our body is very choosy...create limitation.....
for an example..
1)most of them using only one brand of cigrate throughout their life....according to me only slite diferent in tobacco....
2)simmilar to beverage....
3)cool drink..etc..
their is plenty of example like that...people create there limitations and deny any change.....
if u eat south indian food in the hotel or resturant u will get your answer.....AS of my views south indian(karnataka) food cooked at home is awesome........even south indian(karnataka) they hardly eat south indian(karnataka) food outside....
as of my knowlege....onle some sagar brand is proving real test of karnataka...rest of them they spoil the test of karnataka....
i am very happy to say in south india andhra food is awsome...recognising throughout the world....
@ Ashok : Hey buddy its not about you liking the food or not its just about that it is food to someone and you should not dis-honour it. I really agree the southIndian food cooked in house is awesome.
Reagrding Native lingo conversation i meant at workplace and according to me if you are working somewhere its very bad that you dont know a common language which is not Hindi but English.
Hi Guys.
Very nice thread, which will involve everyone to participate and share their opinion.
i do agree, there are some people who communicate in their mother tongue even if a person foreign to this language is present.
This happens only when at least one of the listener is familiar to that language. The moment we come to know that the listener is from our native place or understands our language, we experience a nostalgic/native feeling and we start speaking in the mother tongue. This happens effortlessly. When our mind gives a signal that some other persons are also involved in the discussion who do not understand this language , then we speak in the common language hindi/English. Sometimes, people talk in the native language in order to keep the things confidential.
i am agree with Ashok , As he gave one of the prime reason. That we are comfortable in our native language, because we think in the native language. While speaking in any other language, our mind translates the sentence in that language. which is not comfortable to our mind. But with practice we can become familiar to it.
we need to avoid speaking in native language at the work place, As it is against the business ethics.
Hi Ankit,
Very Nice Post.
As a South Indian(Tamil), I will say that "Andhra food is awsome"
Vijay
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